As the month of love unfolds, singer Atif Aslam has a simple yet profound message for those dealing with a breakup: cherish the experience and move forward.
In a special behind-the-scenes video ahead of his upcoming Qatar concert, Atif engaged with fans through a candid 15-minute vlog on his YouTube channel. Released on Thursday, the video featured him answering a wide range of questions—from his preference between chocolate cake or cookies (“A cookie!”) to the inspiration behind his iconic song Aadat (“It stemmed from loneliness”). However, one fan from Delhi posed a more personal question: how to move on from a breakup.
Atif’s response was both unexpected and uplifting. “Congratulations! This is the best decision you’ve made for yourself,” he said with a smile.
Life Beyond Heartbreak
While Atif embraces the idea of love, both as an artist and as a happily married man and father, he emphasized that relationships don’t define one’s entire existence. “I’m proud of you. Life is much more than just breakups and relationships,” he stated. His advice? Focus on building a career, excelling in it, and achieving financial stability—because when the time is right, love will find its way.
Insights on Marriage
Beyond breakups, Atif also shared wisdom about marriage, offering a glimpse into his own relationship dynamics. When asked how he handles conflicts with his wife of nearly 12 years, Sara Bharwana, he had a straightforward answer: “When she’s upset, I just say sorry. It’s that simple.”
However, Atif admitted that learning to apologize didn’t come naturally to him. “Friends have told me that getting me to say ‘sorry’ is nearly impossible,” he reflected. “But I realized that stubbornness stems from ego, and I know that Allah does not favor ego.” His takeaway? When you recognize your mistake, don’t let pride get in the way—own up to it.
The Story Behind Aadat
Revisiting his early days, Atif shared how Aadat (2004) was born out of personal heartbreak. “I was going through a breakup,” he revealed. “At the time, social media was just MIRC chatrooms and dial-up networks, so I expressed my emotions through lyrics and melody. I never imagined the song would gain such popularity.”
Balancing Family and Career
When asked about managing his music career alongside family life, Atif credited his parents for instilling the importance of prayer, which he says keeps him grounded. He also expressed gratitude for his wife’s unwavering support. “She is my backbone,” he said warmly. “Without her, I wouldn’t be where I am today.”
Despite his superstar status, Atif, a self-proclaimed introvert, admitted that he only filmed the vlog because fans had requested it. Their response? Overwhelming love and appreciation.
“I never want Atif Aslam to end,” one fan wrote. “He makes me feel like I’m in a relationship even when I’m single.” Another admirer praised his authenticity, saying, “Love how sweet, humble, approachable, and a little bit silly he is!”
